above defense

“Oh, so Aikido is purely a self-defense martial art.” people usually say when explaining Aikido to them. They then move on from it during the conversation to their childhood story of training Kempo for two years when they were ten years old, dismissing Aikido as a mamby-pamby martial art. Happens all the time. Thing is, I often agree with them that Aikido is, in fact, a purely defensive martial art. I was thinking of this the other day and realized how much this discounts the art. “Aikido as self-defense” is misleading. In Aikido, we don’t look at the world as something to defend ourselves from. We look at the world as something to change, wherein the first, if not the only, place to change it is with ourselves. We meet the energy and change it into something else, hopefully more positive and creative. No true Aikidoists play the victim card that I’ve ever met, and I guarantee you that O’Sensei didn’t. To be able to look at violence with soft eyes and transcend it is not for the weak. Merely looking for self-defense against a big, bad bully can be achieved by a weekend class at the YMCA. To be able to smile at the man coming in to take your life and protect him as he falls rendering his attack laughable takes a warrior.

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happy birthday aiki living!

Aiki Living turns one year old today! Wow, can’t believe it’s been a year since starting this blog. For those of you who’ve been following it, you’ve seen it morph into a few different forms and formats, but I’m really happy with where it’s at right now. Writing about living the life of Aiki has changed my life and expanded my focus in countless ways. Feedback I’ve received by visitors of the site has been very positive, and I thank you for that. In the coming year of Aiki Living, I have some ideas for the site and am excited to see where it goes. I’d like to get more people involved in the conversation and hear some different perspectives. Look for more regular, random musings. Starting your day with an aiki intention can be great and that’s what this blog is intended for.

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I honestly think the ideas of Aiki are truly revolutionary and have the capability to change people’s worldview for the better. Why not share it, right? Also, as always, I encourage guest posts from anybody who has a story or new perspective of aiki-ness. They can train in Aikido or just be someone who has a positive message. Maybe someone who’s succeeded or prevailed against the odds, changed another life through their positive message, or been inspired by someone else who exudes these qualities.

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happy birthday O’Sensei

I’d like to extend a happy birthday to the founder of the art of Aikido, O’Sensei, Morihei Ueshiba. What he created from years of strife and hardship, I believe, truly does have the power to change the world. Lofty goal for a martial art, for sure, but after training in the art for some time, I can see how it’s possible. It’s transformed my life and I’ve seen that transformation take place in many others’ as well. So here’s to O’Sensei.

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blind spots

In Aikido, we’re always moving in a circular way where we can see multiple attackers. Blind spots are bad. We don’t want to be exchanging blows with one person because there may be two or three others coming up behind us. If that’s the case, we need to handle that person as soon as possible before either getting out of there or moving on to the next one. We need to bring our blind spots into our awareness as soon as possible.

Life is not the octagon. In a real life ‘situation’, survival is the goal, not ‘winning’. To do this, we have to open our peripheral and not fear multiple attackers.

Mentally and spiritually, we can take this same principle and apply it just as well. We all have beliefs that work against us. Just like in the randori (multiple attacker situation), we need to open our peripheral and bring to awareness those beliefs and emotions that may be holding us back. If not, they will lurk in the darkness and hamper our every move.

Having tunnel vision usually doesn’t work in our favor and comes from the part of our consciousness that has been programmed during a time where we had to run from saber-toothed tigers on a regular basis. There are a few instances where that automatic response may save our lives, but the disadvantages of it far outweigh the advantages in this day and age. Eliminate the blind spots.

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Competition. Get a point. Make the other guy fall. Punch him in the face. Block his punch. Sweep the knee! Whuh? If a fight is the end all, be all, have at it.  Keep your focus right where it is.  Good luck getting real world results with that mindset outside the ring, mat, gym, club, office, school, dinner table, or wherever you may be duking it out.  In above situation, the obstacle is the focus.  We’re fighting the competitor.  We’re locked into dealing with the problem. Wrestling it.  But then what?  What happens when we do that?  Usually, if this is our mindset, we just move on to the next problem and rinse, repeat.  I propose we do something else.  With Aikido, I’ve learned that we need to realize said obstacle is essentially unimportant and to focus on the positive outcome, whatever that may be.  If you can do like O’Sensei, and do it while someone’s shooting at you or coming at you with a live blade, please, email me, and you’re guaranteed a guest post.  Something to work for, though.

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